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3 vital co-parenting considerations

On Behalf of | Dec 12, 2023 | Child Custody |

Going through a divorce is a challenging situation that impacts the parents as well as their children. While it’s usually not a good idea to stay in a marriage because of the children, it’s vital for parents to work as a team to raise the children.

It’s not always easy to co-parent. Consider implementing these three points into the co-parenting arrangement.

1: Children come first

The well-being of your children should always be the primary focus of your co-parenting efforts. You must make decisions that are in their best interests. Being flexible with schedules when necessary and ensuring they have a stable, loving environment are critical. Keep the lines of communication open with your co-parent about the children’s education, health and emotional needs.

2: Avoid badmouthing

Speaking negatively about the other parent in front of your children can harm their emotional well-being. Children often internalize such comments, leading to feelings of divided loyalty or emotional conflict. If you need to vent or discuss issues regarding your co-parent, do so with a trusted friend, family member or therapist, away from the children.

3: Communicate calmly

Effective communication is the cornerstone of successful co-parenting. Strive for clear, calm and respectful communication with your co-parent. Utilize tools like email, texting or co-parenting apps to keep track of schedules and essential information. This can help minimize misunderstandings and conflicts. When disagreements arise, focus on finding solutions rather than assigning blame. Remember, the goal is to work together for the benefit of your children, not to win arguments.

It may be helpful to include communication terms in the co-parenting agreement. This gives you and your ex clear guidelines to refer to and follow as you raise the children.